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Originally Posted by Abuela  I have learned that being in control of my life doesn't mean that I have to make every decision about every little thing that affects me - there is tremendous freedom and personal power sometimes in saying "YOU decide." |
Right. It's the difference between thinking to yourself, "I have to act directly or I'm not in control, let me do it" and, "I don't have to be involved, you can take care of this, it's under control."