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Originally Posted by Amandaaa  i love hypothetical questions. 
...it helps you prepare for the worst. | The only way to deal with the worst is to experience it.  The best lover is someone who has gone through a dozen heartbreaks and still comes out of it willing to love. Quote:
Originally Posted by 172 Is this "dance" normal? | Yes. No. Quote:
Originally Posted by 172 Can the tables be turned back again to where he pursues once again? | Yes. I recommend against it. Though that's an odd way to use the "tables turning" metaphor; I expected you to suggest that she chase him. Quote:
Originally Posted by 172 Can this ever be balanced out? | Yes. When they chase each other. Quote:
Originally Posted by 172 How does she repair the apparent breech caused by him coming to the realization that he has won her fully and the pursuit is over? | By loving herself. Quote:
Originally Posted by 172 Does this also happen in marriage? | Yes. No.
__________________ "I read, I interpret, I think, I criticize, I oppose, I listen, I write, I question, I reply, I quote, I tell, I name, I discuss, I interpolate..., I learn, I teach, I live, therefore I am." -- Marc-Alain Ouaknin, "Mysteries of the Kabbalah", p383.
Favorite Essays I Wrote: love, identity & growth, economics, education, equality, definitions.
Recent Books I liked: Anansi Boys, Fly By Night, Hyperion. |