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Originally Posted by jsot  And that's where my problem is, I can't really get the liking yourself part down, sometimes if I try really hard I'll start to really feel good about myself, but then, something happens and I'm back to where I started, or worse. |
First, you must realize that you are absolutely unique... and that there is no one like you in the world... and that in your uniqueness you are perfect... exactly as God or Nature or whatever you want to call it, wanted you to be...
You don't have to try to "fit in" ...your entire personal universe revolves around you... you are at the center of it all for as long as you live... and when you go... that unique and personal universe will simply cease to exist...
Now, if you can accept and integrate that mindset... you will never have any problem with being timid or shy... you are the light... the energy source... the creator of your own world/universe... so, go out and play with it...
That may sound very esoteric at first... but, give it some thoughts... you will see that it is only common sense and the logical conclusion that we can have about our life...
The very best of luck to you...
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