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A man relentlessly pursues a woman for many years....she rejects his advances....until he finally wears her down and she accepts....they spend a year and a half in loving bliss...it's everything he ever thought it would be....THEN when he realizes she really does love him....he starts losing interest.
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oh my god, i think my heart just sunk a little bit when i read that...
haha
i've always been so afraid of that happening...
i've been playing hard to get for literally, like,
4 years.
(ridiculous, i know).
it's also sort of a result of our circumstances... but i'm so afraid that once he gets the reciprocity that he wants, he'll lose interest.
it'll be like, "
Game Over."
it's the thrill of the chase.
and it depends on the guy..but yes, i think it is pretty normal.
and to be honest, i'm not really sure what i would do...
if it's true love, then i think the couple could find a way to balance it out again and keep things exciting.
it won't be as much of a "rush" as the initial pursuit, but i would hope that, in marriage, you would kind of reach a different level of love and respect for each other.
you have to be past the point of playing games.
that's what the single life is for.
