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Originally Posted by coLLege kid07  s I'm looking for what skills I could develop to help reach my goal of attracting genuine relationships and being fearless. |
You've been watching too many movies...
nobody is fearless until a certain rapport is established with new meaningful acquaintances...
Now, if you don't care about the person... that's something else... but if you believe that the relationship has a future... the tension will be directly proportional to your desire to make a good impression and contact...
Now, on a practical approach... I would say that the best way to become accepted and liked by anyone is to, "
try to get the person feeling better about who he or she is than the person was feeling before meeting you..."
Ultimately... that is all that we want... "feeling good" and if you can accomplish that with anyone... you'll be a winner...
The very best of luck to you...
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