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Sure I see that we depend on each other, but then doesn't it make more sense to cooperate, not to compete?
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Power not only allows you to compete better but also to cooperate better.
The goal of seduction is to intentionally get someone to cooperate with you by changing their value perceptions of yourself followed by the other person thinking about you in times when that person doesn't have contact with you and attaching positive emotions to being with you.
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The only thing we can't control is people's free will. No one can mind control the other person to do something that they want.
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Yes but that isn't the goal of seduction to force someone to do something it to attach enough value to something in another persons mind to take action on their own will.
The goal can also be something other than sex. Music stars use seduction to sell their music and a lot of teenage girls are in love with some member of a boygroup.
The boygroup profits by the money of the sales and the girls profit by feeling emotions that make them happy.
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I just want to advice members not use seduction to build relationship. Even you get to build one, how the other person will think? How will you be with them when you try to hide the past that you seduce them?
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Their are a lot of ways besides hypnosis to seduce someone. Some are more and others are less effective.
The girl that puts on makeup will have no problem with her boyfriend discovering that she used more makeup than usual on her first date to seduce the boyfriend.
Another example of society accepted seduction behavior is buying flowsers for a woman.
Men buy flowers to make a woman feel good and hope that the woman associates that feeling with them.
While appear as "trying to hart" can infact reduce attraction, a bit of trying to make a woman feel good is a useful skill when you want to have any kind relationship.
A lot of girls want that their men try to make them happy, so it is nothing that has to be hidden.
The approach of improving oneself to a level where you do the things that make the other person happy unconsciously can also work.
The meme of love that happens on first sight without either party consciously trying to make it happen is deeply embedded in our culture.
That might be because behavior with the intention of sex is considered immoral in the Judeo-Christian religions.
In addition the unknown, the mysterious itself seduces people. It seems much more romantic when love just happens then when it requires effort.
Why don't people want to be able to seduce?
1) Because power always creates responsibilty and people hate responsibilty.
2) Because the meme of love of the first sight has seduced them enough to bring them to think about it from time to time and feel happy in the process. A lot of woman even buy romance novels to substitute for real physical encounters.
3) Because of Judeo-Christian Morals.
PS: This forum is no chat. Take the time to make your argument instead of trading onelines.