I thought about this. Had I been able to seduce people at will, I would have been maybe satisfied enough to stay in my last relationship. Then I would have never met Slamhot Boy. That thought alone makes me pretty sad.
But being able to seduce HIM? I can and I love it.
Sometimes there's a reason the cute little metrosexual who is playing grab ass with you won't give you a lay, and maybe it's beyond the scope of our narrow understanding.