Attraction is
not a choice.
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Originally Posted by XeutonMojukai Taking advantage of a woman is wrong. |
This is very relative and depends on your purpose. We are results-oriented. Just like ANY skill in the world you can use it toward bad and good. You can grab a shotgun to protect your family, or you can rob a bank with it. Weapons made for security while using for wars and killins millions. Driving a car from CA to FL is faster than walking, but you could run over and kill somebody during your trip. Isn't that true?
It's not the techniques itself, not the method, equipment or device, it's the way
you use to and what are you aiming for, what is your purpose. You can use anything toward the highest good of all or vice versa. This is about ethics. Character and ethics. John wouldn't do it. But who knows? Maybe Joe would. We are different. We are unique and, thus, have different desires, goals and purpose throughout our lifetime.
Seduction itself is a negative word for most. This word exudes "taking advantage" and all sort of "negative, bad, unethical" results, right? I wonder why. It is social conditioning. It is what we see in the TV. You may want to thank Hollywood for that, though. Bad guys seducing women, orgies and all of that, then of course dumping women. Oh yeah. PUAs! Playing the numbers' game. Let's go sarging, eh? Sure! Oh no, she's not a ten. This is what seduction means for most. And it is so freaking way wrong! Couldn't be further from the reality!
Some people have this kind of attitude toward salespeople, rainmakers and marketing superstars. What the heck? Yes, some salespeople are ignorant, unethical and freaking annoying. I admit it. I've known more than a few. But the profession per se is awesome and great; don't blame the profession, blame the practitioner! You hire a hypnotist, and he can't put you into deep trance and you blame hypnosis. It's utter bullshit, right?
Seduction
as a skill is wonderful. If applied ethically, morally, and so forth, it is amazing and marvelous. I can't imagine how could I be "taking advantage of" my girl if I were to fulfill her everlasting fantasies of the Mr. Right. How in the world could it classified as 'negative' or something 'bad' if I was to give her the best days and nights she could ever experience throughout her lifetime. Make her feel the way she never felt before. Give her unique rollercoaster of emotions and sensations.
How could I be "taking advantage of her" if I was charming, kind, smart, caring while exuding bulletproof confidence, power and maturity. Would I be the "bad guy" because our relationship would not be mediocre, de facto standard boring, and because I wouldn't feel insecure? Our relationship would be intense, one of a kind and exceptional, that's definitely isn't a standard lately.
Show her how life was meant to be lived, enjoying the abundance of life, and creating every day as the memorable one that could ever be. Give her the best (multiple) orgasms of her life on a daily basis despite the odds of 70% women faking orgasms because they aren't able to experience them genuinely. Incompentence? Probably. But that's not the point of my post.
Don't blame mathematics because you suck at it. Blame the tutor or yourself for lacking motivation to learn it properly!
"No woman has ever left my arms unsatisfied." Don Juan DeMarco.