Originally Posted by tcfxaox
Your ongoing story is absolutely an inspiration man. I find myself in a very similar place as you when you started this adventure. Thank you for sharing.
How was the Real Social Dynamics bootcamp? I have had some marginal succcess with opening myself up and allowing people into my life recently through new hobbies but I still have alot* to learn in this area. I find that I have difficulty 'meeting people' in general (especially attractive women) outside of a setting where I am highly comfortable with myself such as mountain biking, climbing, camping, cooking etc.
So this is what I thought about bootcamp.
It was a lifechanging experience and it was the catalyst for all my recent relationship success.
I took mine with Nathan! in Austin, Texas. And I just happened to also move to Austin also. The lessons that I learned were invaluable and he told me "exactly what I needed to hear". I HIGHLY doubt that I would've been able to discover what he told me on my own, or it would've easily taken me 4-5 years extra.
The first month was really rough for me because I kept getting flaked on by different girls, but that was mainly because I wasn't 1) Being myself 2) Being a true man. I was still trying to use "Game" to get girls and stuff like that.
Come the 2nd month that I was in Austin, something magical started to happen. Girls started flaking less and they took more initiative to come and meet me. Consequently, I started getting laid alot more, but that was only the byproduct of being a real man, bringing true emotion to my interactions, leading, and being myself.
Now, I feel like every night that TI go out, I'm "entering the Matrix" so to speak. I'll go out to a nightclub/bar/etc all by myself and I have all the tools that I need to meet chicks and have a great experience (either in bed or out of it).
Before, I used to worry about what exatctly I should do/say after I walk up to a chick. I was emotionally closed, and I didn't really have much ability to really lead things forward emotionally. Most people would've disagreed if they say me, but the main thing for me was CONSCIOUS understanding. I would get girls, but I wouldn't have ANY clue on how I did it. Bootcamp kinda changed all that.
Also, going out 6 nights a week definitely helped with that too.
but yes, BC is pretty bad-ass.
I suggest Nathan! highly.