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Originally Posted by Akashic_Librarian  Bitsy....your strongly opinionated on this I see. |
Opinions are formed from experience.
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Originally Posted by Akashic_Librarian Carnal Pleasure, decadence and "deterioration" as you so negatively put it, are part of our Primal nature. Sex is fun. First and foremost its vital to our races survival. Second its a spiritual thing, its the entwining of two people in love, Male or Female, lastly its just good fun, its good stress relief, its good exercise! |
You have taken my words out of context and diverted from my point. I was only referring to sex in the 4th paragraph of my post, all the rest was in reference to the subject of this thread, which was about the desire to seduce anyone you want.
There is absolutely nothing spiritual or loving about sex in seduction, on the contrary, it is the deliberate, conscious manipulation and controlling of another person by virtue of a weakness they have, and for the purpose of feeding the ego, male or female--a manifestation of self-love (in the negative sense). It's lording power over someone weaker than you are. It's nearly a manifestation of hostility, as in the example I gave of seducing men to get revenge.
To add to that, sex is nothing on its own, not loving, not spiritual, not selfish, or bad, or good. Only people assign to it what they say it is or they make it one thing or another by how they use it. So the adjectives I used above were to be applied within the context of sex in seduction, it's my opinion of that use.
I'm not talking about societal values either, I'm talking about conscience, I'm talking about not hurting other people and treating them with respect, like human beings and not objects to boost one's ego or self-image, or because some guy has his source of self-worth with his "organ," or with the number of people he could coax to have sex with him. People are not numbers or things. They are individual human beings with hearts and minds.
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Originally Posted by Akashic_Librarian In my opinion to be a complete person, you must accept all sides of yourself, including the dirty, sex-driven nympho that lives in the back of our minds |
yes...
Btw: I like what Christian said a lot, in the first paragraph, I agree with him.
Asmoday: Thanks, it was plenty more than once, and I can't let myself do what you said, otherwise I would have done it by now
. I haven't found someone I want to do it with.
Why don't I care about being able to seduce anyone I want? Because I already can. I make efforts to avoid men's attention, actually. Don't want it.
Now...I'm sorry, I have to bow out of this, in fact, take a break from the forums all together, since the temptation to write is too great and it is proving counterproductive to my personal improvement. I never should have posted on this thread! So I won't be responding to any further posts. Maybe I'll come back and read afterwards to test if I've really gotten over this problem...