Well Asmoday DID say you don’t always have to close the deal …
Bitsy, you mention guys being obnoxious about sex. That’s the guys who have little experience at being successful with women. After a while a guy can just be playful and not really care about the individual outcome.
You also mention women being able to seduce a man without even trying. It would seem that letting men be similarly skilled would simply be evening the playing field, bringing us all closer to equality
Right now I’m mostly a cuddly, playful person. It’s fun just having people to talk and hang out with. Oh, but I do love giving massages. People don’t usually mind too much.