Well, personally i wouldnt want to, because it doesnt really bring happyness, after all, what is the primary reason that men are looking for when they get into pickup arts?, sex with many girls as they want, its a numbers game, not actually about enjoying sex, otherwise they would just learn about tantra, or sexology, and get one partner to enjoy those pleasures or just masturbating.
But i think that there is a universal male fantasy of becoming a Don Juan, and by fulfilling it one is getting a feeling of importance, its an ego boost, a way of proobing self worth, something to boast about, a way to gain self-esteem, so i belive that it is an un-realistic way of living, produced by un-healthy beliefs or problems... its kind of a way of living that is detached from reality, as if happyness where achieved by making millions of dollars or by having sex with thousands of women.
I have been learning about pickup arts myself, not with the purpose of becoming and Don Juan, but to understand the oposite sex, and to actually be able to seduce when i want, to be attractive when i want and who i want, to get rid of my insecurities also of not knowing what to do or how to do it, to understand why things happen they way they happen, and i think its great to know about it to keep a long term relationship fun and exiting, but not to get laid every night with a different lady.
I think both men and women should take some effort to learn how to seduce their partner, its about their duty to make eachother happy.
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