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Originally Posted by NotesMaeve  Wow! Hm. Here's the stuff I do for my sweetie:
Post coitus, I rub his wrists because he has a disease that causes joint probs. Also rub them after he drums.
In general, I am supportive of him overcoming his challenges and will put my life on hold for his problems.
He's got my constant admiration. I looove bragging about him! He's sexy, in great shape, brave, clever, and I'll talk your ear off about this if you let me. Love boosting his self-esteem too!
When he has a bad night and I'm over, I love rubbing his back until he falls asleep.
I love cooking for him.
I love that he "gets" my jokes.
We can talk Eco and Fuco.
Outside of sex, there's admiration for one other's physical form. <3
My friends would never tell me how they want to rip all my clothes off or carry me. (Squee!) My friends would never grab me and kiss me in public because they can't contain themselves. (Double squee!) It's this whole "courtship" process that makes it so great. Anyone can have sex with me. Not everyone can make me so insane. |
Christian, this is the reason it's worth having a girlfriend who is more than a girlfriend...
One of my exes lives on the other side of the country from me.
We still love each other.. but we've decided that it's not likely to work out since I'm still in college and she's long been a social worker.
I wasn't there when she lost her virginity, but I trust her since telling me that she thought of me..
Even now, we talk when we can with such gusto and desire that it's hard to remember that we live 3000 miles apart...
I did an astrology reading for our relationship, and the first thing it said was that we felt like we were in a Barbera Cartland novel. Well, now that I know that they never had sex in them and were often bittersweet, I feel that this is scarily true...
We'll remember each other forever, not because we tell each other that we will, but because we share a spiritual bond that goes beyond space and time, and will be available when we are in our final resting place.
There is more than I can ever explain that is the reason for seeking a true loving girlfriend... I was only with her for a couple of months, but I could write a Bible about our relationship, simply because we transcended time so much that we've spent eternities together.
Luckily, it doesn't come just once in a lifetime. Love like that is everywhere, and is always possible.
Just don't look for it.
I met her on a dating site, but not because we found each other.
It was because I wrote a thread on the forum and she responded immediately with the same feelings as I, and invited me to have a conversation.
Well, she still tells me that I always have been irresistable to her...
I can read her mind, and she can read mine, and we've never heard each others' voices...
Don't just settle on someone to f*ck every once in a while...
Live your life and earn true love, and the more earnestly you've lived and waited, the better the universe will reward you.
I promise you this.
~ David