I am in a similar situation to this. I have an old friend that got married and moved on but still wants to stay in touch. I find nothing in common with him, but feel really guilty if I have to tell him something like that. He is the kind that gets defensive and really tries to convince me that I owe him, or that nothing is really changed.
Eventually I just didn't return his calls, now, 7 months later, I feel really guilty, and just want to call to check up on him. Something tells me that this is the wrong thing to do and that I will regret it, but I just don't know how to assuage the guilt I am feeling. He is a nice guy, our lives just went on different paths.....
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