 Good advice, everyone!
Think that both of your most recent advice seems to go hand-in-hand, no? Perhaps not ready to look for "other" men just yet, but for now, the Plan A is to take care of myself. Believe in myself; remember I am worthy of love; try to get my school work finished and done (working on my PhD); get my body in shape, as well as my house; keep up with my friends and family; and work on my practice of meditation. Should he come around during this time, think it is best to stick with Plan A, regardless, and if he is not the man I need/want him to be, well, then, keep working the plan. No need for a Plan B just yet, don't think. However, if and when I am ready again for a relationship, perhaps then, I can look at Plan A and B again. Then, Plan A will be get over him. Plan B will be incorporate him. We'll see where he is then. Since he is nowhere near ready now, seems best to stick to my original Plan A. |