Originally Posted by jaideepv1234
For Example, In previous thread I said that I am unhappy with my looks that simply means I need to take steps towards reducing my weight. That means I need to join the Gym. I know once my weight will be reduced I will feel good about me and I will start loving myself.
I think you make and build on false premises. Joining the Gym may not reduce your weight and a reduced wieght may not make you feel good about yourself or start loving yourself.
By classic LOA, the cause and effect is the opposite of what most people think. Often you need to reverse the sequence. You need to feel and be who you want to be first before you can have and do what you want. Not the other way around.
When an action requires will power, or if it feels like a sacrifice or forced labor, it's difficult to start and to maintain. When you are aligned with your goals, falicitating situations and inspired actions come naturally to you.
There is no prerequisite to being happy.
There is no prerequisite to love yourself.