Your Relationship Purpose Statement

September 4th, 2015 by Steve Pavlina

A spiritual purpose statement answers the question: Why am I here?

A spiritual purpose statement for a relationship answers the question: Why are we in each other’s lives?

Yesterday I felt inspired to create a spiritual purpose statement for my relationship with Rachelle. I figured it would be simplest if I took a first stab at it, and then she could decide if she wanted to add, subtract, or change anything.

She’s presently in Toronto while I’m in Las Vegas, so I brainstormed a list of ideas and emailed it to her.

Here’s the list I shared with her:

  • encouraging and supporting each other creatively
  • honoring our vegan lifestyle together
  • making each other feel loved, appreciated, and cared for
  • traveling, exploring, learning, and sharing new experiences together
  • giving each other the freedom to explore and grow as individuals
  • expressing our love with abundant touch and affection
  • forgiving each other’s mistakes and transgressions
  • stretching ourselves to keep trying new things
  • stimulating each other mentally, physically, and emotionally
  • having fun together, playing together, and sharing many laughs
  • communicating with honesty, directness, and caring
  • cultivating balance between healthy living and indulgence
  • being each other’s best friend
  • being mutual fans and admirers of each other’s work
  • saying “I love you” every day

She liked the initial list as-is and didn’t see anything to change just yet. We can of course refine the list as we have more time to reflect on it.

When I read this list, it makes me smile. Writing it even brought a tear to my eye. I felt immense gratitude for our relationship, which is currently in its sixth year.

I think that if you have high compatibility with someone, it should be fairly easy to come up with a relationship purpose statement that you both like. You could brainstorm together, or one person could write the first draft; I think it can work well either way.

If you can’t agree on why you’re together, why is that? Are you each wanting to take the relationship in different directions? Has the relationship lost its meaning and devolved into a mere collection of habits and routines? Does it no longer makes sense to continue investing in each other?

Fair and Balanced Relationship Offers

You could even write a relationship purpose statement before you’re in a relationship (including if you’re currently in an unhealthy relationship). What do you want the spiritual purpose of your relationship with someone to be? How would you define a healthy and meaningful relationship?

I’ve known people who’ve quickly attracted delightful new relationships into their lives shortly after defining a spiritual purpose for such a relationship. The key is that they create a fair and balanced offer that represents a good deal for both sides. Their offer includes receiving what they want to receive, but only from someone who truly desires to give it. And the offer includes giving what they want to give, but only to someone who will truly appreciate it.

Greediness, sacrifice, and compromise are all foolish notions that should be avoided in a healthy relationship. Greed is receiving more than you give. Sacrifice is giving more than you receive. Compromise is giving more than you’d like while receiving less than you’d like. All of these are misalignments.

The higher standard to shoot for is genuine compatibility. This means giving your best and receiving the best without shortchanging either side. For this to work, you need a partner who will appreciate what you desire to give, and who desires to give that which you will appreciate. If you have one of these but not the other, it’s a mismatch, and the flow of value in the relationship won’t be fair and balanced. For a win-win relationship, you need both.

The universe seems to appreciate fair and balance offers. From what I’ve seen, people who make unfair offers tend to receive little or nothing. They also seem to sabotage themselves or sit around doing nothing, probably because they know their offers are somewhat ridiculous. When they do attract relationship partners, they seem to cycle between semi-abusive mismatches and utterly boring mismatches.

On the other hand, people who make fair and balanced offers tend to see them fulfilled. Usually they’re first tested with one or more partial matches to see if they’ll settle for less. If they settle for less than a fair offer, they can sidetrack themselves for years until they realize that settling is a mistake. But if they can stay true to their standards and believe in the fairness of their offer, they’ll decline the partial matches and wait for the full match because they know it’s worth waiting for. Eventually it shows up, sometimes in the most amazingly synchronistic ways. It’s a beautiful thing to see. I love it when people share those kinds of stories with me. Happiness radiates from every pore. :)

The vibe that emanates from a truly compatible relationship is so different from the vibe of a partial match. With a partial match, the lightness and playfulness just isn’t there (unless perhaps it’s drug-induced). With true compatibility there’s an ease and lightness to the relationship. It’s carefree, flowing, and spontaneous. Such people are energizing and uplifting to be around.

Universal Ideas to Include

Let me share a handful of ideas that you may consider universal enough to want to incorporate into your relationship purpose as well.


It’s well-established that a capacity for forgiveness is crucial for a fulfilling long-term relationship. Human beings will make mistakes, even when trying to avoid them. There must be a pressure-release valve that reduces negative feelings when mistakes are made. Otherwise those feelings will turn inward, resentment will build, and intimacy will die a slow and tedious death.

You often see this in couples that haven’t had sex for months. Or when they do have sex, they’re just going through the motions. They have sex with their bodies, but their minds and hearts aren’t fully present to each other. The lightness and playfulness is missing. Trust has been diminished. Wounds haven’t healed.

I’d recommend to anyone that forgiveness should be an aspect of your relationship purpose, unless you feel it’s such an obvious aspect of any healthy relationship that you don’t need to list it.

I think it’s also good to know how you’ll express forgiveness. Do you prefer verbal apologies and deep conversations? Written love letters? Make-up sex? Teary-eyed cuddle sessions? Playful penances? You don’t necessarily need to include these in your purpose statement if your mechanisms for forgiveness are well-established, but if emotional withdrawal or stonewalling have been issues for you, then I’d recommend including the how-to details. It’s important to see if you both agree on how to heal and recover from emotional injuries before they become chronic, intimacy-killing wounds.


Having fun together is easy to overlook, but it’s also crucial for a healthy relationship. Mira Kirshenbaum lists the lack of fun as a good and valid reason to break up in her amazing book Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay. As she notes in the book, people who break up due to a lack of fun are usually happier in the long run than people who chose to stay in such relationships.

If you don’t have fun together, you don’t belong together. That may seem like an overly strong statement. Often the importance of fun isn’t obvious to someone who’s been stuck in an unfulfilling relationship for a while. They might not regard fun as essential, and the lack of fun isn’t seen as a valid reason to break up. But to someone who’s currently in a relationship that includes lots of mutual fun, the importance of fun usually seems obvious; it just wouldn’t make sense to settle for less.

You’re not an android. Your relationships deserve an element of fun, adventure, spontaneity, and aliveness. So much of your bonding and so many cherished memories will result from having fun together. Why are you in each other’s lives? Please let one of your answers be that you are playmates.

(My apologies to future androids who read this long after I publish it, in which case, my advice may or may not apply to you, depending on your programming. Either way, I’d be fascinated to learn more about the role of fun in android relationships too, so please feel free to drop me a note about that and tell me about your experiences, assuming I haven’t yet been terminated, upgraded, or assimilated.)

Values Alignment

I receive many emails from people in relationships that either lacked strong values alignment from the beginning, or their values have drifted apart over time. I keep seeing the same patterns. Resentment builds. Intimacy drops. Thoughts of breaking up become almost obsessive. When these people ask me what to do, they already know what to do. They know it’s time to move on and that the relationship isn’t salvageable in a way that will be fulfilling for everyone. They just have a hard time surrendering to that realization, usually because they really don’t want to hurt the other person.

If there are values which you hold sacred, it’s important that your partner shares those values. I don’t think it’s enough to say that your partner “respects” your values but doesn’t share them. That’s compromise, not compatibility. It’s win-lose, not win-win. You owe it to yourself to match up with a partner who truly shares your sacred values; that kind of intimacy is beautifully fulfilling.

Freedom is an important value to Rachelle and me. For us to have a fulfilling relationship, we need to give each other enough space to learn, grow, and explore as individuals. When we hear someone say that their spouse won’t let them switch careers because the spouse is worried that it might diminish their standard of living, we feel disgusted. We would never get in each other’s way like that. We couldn’t imagine telling someone we love to remain in an unfulfilling career just to maintain the couple’s standard of living. We know that it enhances and strengthens our relationship when we give each other the freedom and the encouragement to keep learning, growing, and exploring. This is a much higher lifestyle priority for us than maintaining some arbitrary material standard of living.

What values are so important to you that it would be nearly impossible for you to celebrate and cherish your relationship if your partner didn’t share those values? Those values are good candidates to include in your relationship purpose. Part of your purpose then becomes the exploration and expression of those values with your partner. You can also deepen your alignment with your values if you’re in a relationship with someone who holds those values as sacred too.

Mutual Admiration

Do you respect and admire your partner professionally? Do you honor and support the work s/he does in the world? Are you a fan of your partner’s work? Is s/he a fan of yours?

When you’re in a relationship based on mutual admiration, your partner can play the role of being your #1 supporter. You can bounce ideas off each other and receive valuable feedback. You can serve as resources for each other, even if you work in different fields.

When mutual admiration is present, part of your relationship purpose is to enhance and support the work you’re both doing in the world. You are teammates.

If, however, your partner doesn’t admire your work or vice versa, maybe it’s time for a new line of work that’s worthy of such admiration, or maybe it’s time for a new partner who admires and appreciates what you do for the world.

I love seeing Rachelle on a stage performing one of her plays. I love seeing the audience enjoying her talents, especially when she makes them laugh. I love seeing people come up to her afterwards and tell them how much they enjoyed and appreciated her performance and what it meant to them.

I also love it when she sits in the audience or in the back of the room at one of my workshops or speeches. I like feeling her love and support beaming at me. I like that we each have our own unique ways of expressing our creativity and sharing ideas and inspiration with people.

I wouldn’t necessarily say this is a critical item to include for everyone, but for many people it’s pretty high up there. Is it essential for you? If so, be sure to include it in some way.

Expressing Love

How you express your love to your partner matters a great deal. Does your partner receive love the way you naturally express it? Do you receive love the way your partner expresses it?

Make it part of your relationship purpose to express love in the ways your partner desires to receive love, and vice versa. If this is too difficult with your current partner, why stay? You could experience a more purposeful and mutually fulfilling connection with a partner whose natural expressions of love are aligned with yours.

Rachelle and I express and receive love primarily through touch and physical affection. Even when we’re communicating verbally, we’re often using kinesthetic communication at the same time. We can be talking about plans for the day while our bodies are simultaneously saying “I care about you” with a gentle caress, or “I appreciate you” with a squeeze, or “I think you’re sexy” with a nibble on the neck.

If you try to express love in ways your partner doesn’t recognize as being loving, it’s like building a house for someone who doesn’t want to live in it. Eventually you’ll realize that your efforts are pointless, and you’ll stop bothering altogether. That same house (and that same expression of love), however, could be deeply appreciated by someone else who truly wants it.

Continuing with the house analogy, you could learn to build the type of house that the other person wants to live in and abandon your original plans if you think that’s doable. But if you happen to like the way you build houses, and if you think that someone out there would really like and appreciate what you’re building as-is, you may find it easier to seek out a more compatible customer instead. Just be sure not to make the mistake of trying to convince someone to like a house that they don’t want; that isn’t going to work. Yet how many people nudge their partners to go see a therapist or counselor because their partner has an incompatible love strategy? That may enrich the therapist, but it’s a dead end for the relationship.

Expressions of love need a compatible receiver. Many people will not receive love the way you desire to give it, and they won’t give love the way you desire to receive it. When you match up with a compatible partner, the expressions of love become much more powerful because they fulfill their intended purpose. Even the smallest expressions of love are received with appreciation and gratitude. Making each other feel loved becomes incredibly easy. You simply do what you’re naturally inclined to do, and your partner feels very loved. Likewise, your partner is able to make you feel loved with ease, just by behaving normally and naturally. No special effort is required.

Growing Together

If you aren’t helping each other grow, then your relationship is stagnant, and you’ll always feel a longing to be with someone who can and will help you grow.

A healthy relationship is a growing one. It’s constantly moving and changing and never stays still for long.

As Kahlil Gibran wrote in The Prophet:

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.

Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,

So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

But if in your fear you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure,

Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,

Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.

A purposeful relationship will sculpt you and your partner into more conscious people. You will gain and you will shed. You will laugh and you will cry. You will experience the full richness of each season of love — together.

Why are you in each other’s lives?

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Would You Sleep With a Married Person?

August 25th, 2015 by Steve Pavlina

The title assumes of course that the married person isn’t married to you. :)

In light of the recent Ashley Madison revelations, apparently millions of people in North America would have to answer yes to this question.

This is a multi-layered question. Let’s peel off some of those layers and look at them individually, so you can better understand this choice.

Basic Openness

The first layer is: Do you believe there’s anything inherently wrong about being intimate with someone who’s already in a relationship?

Is it necessary for a potential intimate partner of yours to have no other relationship commitments or entanglements? Does that person have to be single for you to be willing to explore an intimate connection? Or could you explore with someone who already has a partner?

Assuming the other person is willing, assuming you share mutual attraction and enough compatibility, and assuming his/her other partner(s) are aware of what’s going on, would you have any immediate resistance to intimately connecting with this person?

Is your answer different if you ponder the question with regards to emotional intimacy instead of physical intimacy?

If you would resist or decline such an opportunity, why is that? Why would you say no?

When I was younger, I’d have resisted such an opportunity. I was raised to believe that it would be wrong. I believed that the only good relationships were strictly monogamous and heterosexual, and everything else was deviant. Those beliefs followed me into my 20s and probably into my early 30s as well. For the most part, I wasn’t consciously aware of these beliefs though, and I didn’t give much thought to possible alternatives.

Eventually I realized that I no longer had any issues with other people who wanted to engage in such pursuits, but I didn’t personally feel comfortable doing it myself. It wasn’t due to jealousy. I felt this way because I was personally uncomfortable with the idea.

What shifted me further was spending time with people who didn’t find anything wrong with this at all. I met men and women alike who seemed genuinely happy and fulfilled with an open relationship posture. This made me curious, and I gradually leaned into the experience. For the past several years, most of the women I’ve been intimate with already had a boyfriend or spouse who was fully aware of the situation and totally fine with it.

For me this was largely an experiential issue. To get clear about my feelings, I had to allow myself to experience both sides. Gaining experience with unfamiliar situations led me to update my beliefs. Today I see nothing inherently wrong with being intimate with someone who has one or more other intimate partners.

Generally speaking, I like it when a woman already has another partner. That suggests that she’s capable of sharing emotional intimacy and maintaining a stable relationship. If she’s in an open relationship, it tells me she’s probably gone through a lot of personal growth to reach that point, which means we’re likely to have some shared values in the areas of growth, exploration, and experiential learning. The fact that someone else finds her pleasing enough to want to continue connecting with her is a good sign as well.

Usually I have better and more fulfilling connections with women who already have relationship partners or who otherwise have significant previous relationship experience as opposed to women who’ve been single for years or have kept mostly to themselves. So if a woman is currently in a relationship, on balance that usually makes me feel better about connecting with her.

I also know from experience that human relationships can be very fluid. Someone who’s in a relationship now may not be in one a few months from now. Change is inevitable. So I don’t regard a person’s current relationship status as being a barrier to connecting, at least not by itself.

Open Adultery

The next layer is: Do you believe there’s anything inherently wrong about being intimate with someone who’s married?

For some people this layer is virtually no different than the previous one. For others the marriage aspect is a big deal.

Would you answer this question any differently than the last one, assuming that the only real issue is the existence of a marriage, and if we assume that everyone is aware of and is okay with your dalliances?

Marriage is a legal arrangement. When you get married, the state is now involved in your relationship. In the case of adultery, there can be added legal risks that wouldn’t otherwise exist in a non-married situation.

Did you know that adultery is actually illegal in many places? Sleeping with someone else’s spouse is still considered a crime in 21 U.S. states. In most states it’s only a misdemeanor punishable by a fine, while in others it could subject you to up to four years in prison. In Idaho, Massachusetts, Michigan, Oklahoma, and Wisconsin, adultery is a felony. This situation is gradually changing though. In the past five years, three states have repealed their anti-adultery laws. I was surprised to learn that adultery is still illegal in New York, where it’s classified as a Class B misdemeanor; I had thought New York would be more progressive. In my home state of Nevada, adultery is legal.

To clarify this a bit further, in some states a single adulterous act wouldn’t be considered a crime. It’s only when cohabitation is involved, thereby establishing a pattern of ongoing adulterous acts, that it crosses the legal line.

Legal prosecution of adultery is becoming increasingly rare. Massachusetts, for instance, hasn’t charged anyone with such a crime since 1983. Even when public figures are involved, prosecution normally isn’t pursued.

The more realistic risks are social ones, especially if you maintain relationships with other people who’d seek to shame and punish your “sinful” ways. I find that these consequences are more a result of dishonesty than of actual adultery. It’s the attempt to hide and cover up the adultery that seems to create the worst consequences.

Due to my own open relationship explorations, I occasionally receive some negative feedback from readers about it, but I receive many times that volume in positive feedback and follow-up questions from people who appreciate my honesty even more. The condemnation I receive for this lifestyle choice is minimal and mostly limited to one-liners with curse words.

While some people may prefer to avoid adultery due to the potential social consequences, my personal experience has shown me that it’s really no big deal. From far away the scarecrow looks intimidating, but it’s really just a stuffed shirt.

Lying about adultery and covering it up, however, usually invites more serious consequences. Social disdain for dishonesty is much greater than for adultery.

Legal and social consequences notwithstanding, is physical intimacy with a married person okay with you?

What about emotional intimacy?

For me it doesn’t make a meaningful difference whether or not someone is married. By itself, the existence of such a legal arrangement wouldn’t be enough to rule out an intimate connection. But if there is a marriage involved, then I would understand that there could be significant legal consequences for the other person due to exploring outside the marriage, such as the potential for a divorce. So I’d want to be sure the other person was aware of those consequences and was willing to explore without being reckless and impulsive.

Secret Adultery

The next layer is: Do you believe there’s anything inherently wrong about being intimate with someone who intends to hide your connection from his/her partner?

Now we’ve taken this from an open connection that all parties know about to one that involves hiding the truth. While you wouldn’t necessarily have to lie, your intimate partner might have to tell lies or significantly bend the truth to hide your connection.

Would you be okay with that? Would it depend on the specifics?

What if no lying was ever necessary?

What if there was a risk that you’d get pulled into actively hiding the truth to keep things covered up?

Would it make a difference if this was just a one-time event versus an ongoing affair?

As far as I can recall, I’ve never had this particular situation come up. I’ve often wondered how I’d handle it since it’s likely to come up eventually.

In general I could see myself possibly exploring such a connection, such as with a woman who was having serious doubts about her relationship and/or experiencing a significant disconnect with her partner. I wouldn’t hold it against her if she wanted to explore with someone else on the side for a while. I have a lot of respect for people struggling to grow through challenging situations, having been through a number of such situations myself. I understand that some people find themselves in relationships with partners who are more closed and less growth-oriented than they are, and this creates pressure to explore outside of the relationship in order to rekindle that spark of growth and avoid suffocation.

I already experience such connections on the emotional intimacy side because many people email me about their relationship challenges, often sharing feelings with me that they can’t easily share with their partners. In a few cases, I’ve even had both partners emailing me. It was eye-opening to see how each person interpreted the same events from their own point of view.

One question I’d ask myself is: Would exploring an intimate connection with this person likely do more good than harm? If I can truthfully say yes to this question, I’d probably say yes to the connection.

Is the other person making a conscious choice to share intimacy with someone else? If they’re making a conscious choice and doing it willingly, with eyes open, and they seem to understand the potential risks and consequences, I could probably handle the exploration if it seemed likely to be an important growth experience for us both. But if they weren’t ready to accept such responsibility and could go no further than baiting me into seducing them (such that they could later deny responsibility for initiating), I’d leave the bait dangling on the line for someone else to nibble.

I know some people who’d gladly share an intimate connection with someone who needed to be seduced and who didn’t want to feel responsible for their actions. This is a line I haven’t crossed and do not desire to cross. It seems like an invitation for hurt and drama, and it doesn’t align well with conscious growth.

In this kind of situation, I’d need more than a passive nod. I’d want to see conscious consent. It’s been my experience, however, that when people are capable of consciously consenting to such an exploration, they’re usually capable of being honest with their primary partner about it as well. It’s difficult to separate responsibility and honesty.

Another place where I’d draw the line would be lying on behalf of the other person to conceal the secret. I wouldn’t be willing to actively lie, but I could agree to keep the connection private. It would be up to the other person to either share or not share the truth with their partner. I wouldn’t push them to share anything if they preferred to hide that aspect from their partner, especially if I felt they had valid reasons for exploring privately for a while.

I generally don’t share details about the private connections I experience with people because by default, I assume everyone wants privacy unless they tell me otherwise. I like hearing the unvarnished truth from people whenever possible. I don’t want people to feel compelled to hide important details when discussing their growth challenges.

Where would you draw the line here? What would you consider okay versus out of bounds?

I’d expect that some of my readers may feel I’m drawing the line too far out here, perhaps expecting me to be more resistant to exploring with someone who intended to hide it from her partner. I can understand such feelings since I used to feel similarly. Going through my own separation and divorce made me more sympathetic towards others who find themselves in challenging relationship situations. I was especially grateful that other people were willing to explore intimacy with me while I was still married. It was extremely helpful for me to have the opportunity to connect with others who were nonjudgmental and understanding of my situation. I grew tremendously because of that.

I was lucky to have a conscious and understanding wife who was able to talk about these explorations openly along the way, so I didn’t have to hide anything from her. We invested a lot of time in open communication throughout the process.

Many people aren’t so lucky though, finding their partners unwilling to discuss and/or work on resolving their challenges. What are they supposed to do if they can’t engage in open dialog? What would you do if your partner was stonewalling your attempts to discuss and transform the relationship? What if you loved him/her very much? What if the situation was depressing you, lowering your energy, and hurting your self-esteem?

It’s too easy to exclaim, “That’s wrong! That’s cheating!” But will such a response lead to healing and resolution? Will it help someone transition to a more fulfilling relationship?

In many situations, I think it’s actually a good idea for people to explore outside the boundaries of a hurting or numb relationship. I know it can be risky, but it can also lead to positive growth and change.

Am I suggesting that the end justifies the means? No, in this case I’m saying that the means are reasonable unto themselves. You have the freedom to explore your path of growth. If a relationship is blocking you from growing, it’s simply intelligent to go around it. A plant that keeps growing in the direction of the sunlight is growing intelligently; it would be foolish to condemn such a plant for being disloyal to the soil.

Violent Adultery

Our final layer is: Do you believe there’s anything inherently wrong about being intimate with someone who deliberately wants to hurt his/her partner?

What if the other person’s relationship has become so damaged that s/he is now seeking an affair to intentionally hurt or sabotage the relationship?

What if s/he seems to want to get caught? What if the intent is to shame, embarrass, or humiliate his/her partner?

Would you allow yourself to share an intimate connection with such a person?

This would be a dealbreaker for me. It might still be a growth experience for the couple, probably leading to a forced and abrupt relationship transition, but I wouldn’t want someone to use me as leverage to do something mean-spirited towards another person. While I understand that some people feel desperate enough to use this as a transition strategy, it’s not a match for my values. Depending on the circumstances, I might also be inclined to warn the partner, especially if I felt doing so could prevent him from suffering further damage.

How do you feel about this situation? Is there any possibility you might find yourself involved with such a person?

Your Standards

What other variations on these themes would help you clarify your values and beliefs? What are the remaining gray areas for you?

What if someone’s partner was going through a major illness, and their current relationship offered no outlet for physical intimacy? What if someone’s partner was away on business for several months? What if someone’s partner was lonely and simply wanted to feel good again?

When I’m faced with a challenging situation and want to make a conscious choice, I keep coming back to the same core principles: truth, love, and power.

Here’s how I’d apply them to situations like those described above.

Truth – What’s the reality of the situation? What’s the status of the person’s relationship? If I connect with this person, what outcomes and consequences are likely? If we don’t connect, what outcomes and consequences are likely?

Love – Do we have compatible desires? Do we want to explore together? Are our reasons for connecting positive and honorable? Do I feel good about this connection? Does she?

Power – Can we help each other grow? Will connecting empower us? Can we help each other become stronger? Can we serve as a source of strength for each other? Can we teach each other and learn from each other?

As a shortcut just ask yourself this one question: Is it intelligent to explore an intimate connection with this person?

Usually when I ask myself that last question, the answer aligns pretty well with my intuitive feelings. I perceive a connection to be intelligent when it increases the emotional health and/or the experiential wisdom of the people involved.

What are your standards? What are your limits for a connection you’d consider worth exploring?

How adulterous are you?

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