http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/ Personal Development for Smart People Fri, 16 May 2008 08:02:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-59752 9 Ways to Overcome Jealousy | Think Simple. Be Decisive. Mon, 19 Nov 2007 13:02:23 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-59752 [...] Find a place alone where you won’t be disturbed. Close your eyes, and start to feel the jealousy. Observe where that feeling is coming from? How is it reflecting in your body? Does your throat feel tight? Is it your stomach? Does your heart ache? Become the observer. It’s important to fully allow the feeling to surface. Recognize that it isn’t you, but your ego’s crave for attention in the name of survival. Keep observing, and in a few seconds you’ll see that the feeling will slowly disperse. By practicing this, “you can move beyond the ego’s perspective and see reality from the perspective of a higher consciousness.” [...] […] Find a place alone where you won’t be disturbed. Close your eyes, and start to feel the jealousy. Observe where that feeling is coming from? How is it reflecting in your body? Does your throat feel tight? Is it your stomach? Does your heart ache? Become the observer. It’s important to fully allow the feeling to surface. Recognize that it isn’t you, but your ego’s crave for attention in the name of survival. Keep observing, and in a few seconds you’ll see that the feeling will slowly disperse. By practicing this, “you can move beyond the ego’s perspective and see reality from the perspective of a higher consciousness.” […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-58136 Relationship Advice: Practical thoughts on overcoming jealousy - Neil Sattin.com Fri, 09 Nov 2007 19:37:56 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-58136 [...] One of the most-searched-for articles on this site is currently “how to know when to leave a relationship“.  I hope those of you who are reading that article are finding it to be helpful.  I’ve had many relationships over the course of my life, and while my quest was to “find the right partner,” I’ve had some great chances to learn a thing or two along the way.  I never dated a “bad” person, but some of my relationships, while they generally started out GREAT, ended up being pretty bad by the end.  I think that’s just the way things go - there’s a lot of competing energy in the world, and when you’re in a relationship that’s not working, a lot of those forces start acting on your relationship (well, mainly the people in the relationship) to hasten its disintegration.  Those forces can create some pretty unpleasant emotions, and one of the most unpleasant emotions that I’ve had to deal with (multiple times) has been jealousy in a relationship.  In this article, we’re going to tackle jealousy head-on - so if you’re looking for some practical tips on how to get rid of jealousy in your relationship, please keep reading.  As a side note:  if you’re looking for a more general discussion of jealousy in life, then check out Steve Pavlina’s well-written article on the topic. [...] […] One of the most-searched-for articles on this site is currently “how to know when to leave a relationship“.  I hope those of you who are reading that article are finding it to be helpful.  I’ve had many relationships over the course of my life, and while my quest was to “find the right partner,” I’ve had some great chances to learn a thing or two along the way.  I never dated a “bad” person, but some of my relationships, while they generally started out GREAT, ended up being pretty bad by the end.  I think that’s just the way things go - there’s a lot of competing energy in the world, and when you’re in a relationship that’s not working, a lot of those forces start acting on your relationship (well, mainly the people in the relationship) to hasten its disintegration.  Those forces can create some pretty unpleasant emotions, and one of the most unpleasant emotions that I’ve had to deal with (multiple times) has been jealousy in a relationship.  In this article, we’re going to tackle jealousy head-on - so if you’re looking for some practical tips on how to get rid of jealousy in your relationship, please keep reading.  As a side note:  if you’re looking for a more general discussion of jealousy in life, then check out Steve Pavlina’s well-written article on the topic. […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-54892 FruitfulTime Blog » Blog Archive » Overcoming Jealousy Wed, 17 Oct 2007 14:31:57 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-54892 [...] If you want to overcome jealousy I suggest you read Steve Pavlina’s excellent article, Overcoming Jealousy, in which he explains what in his opinion is the mindset that makes people become jealous of others success and how to overcome that jealousy. envious envy green eyed monster jealousy overcoming jealousy             [...] […] If you want to overcome jealousy I suggest you read Steve Pavlina’s excellent article, Overcoming Jealousy, in which he explains what in his opinion is the mindset that makes people become jealous of others success and how to overcome that jealousy. envious envy green eyed monster jealousy overcoming jealousy             […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-54650 Personal Development Answers » Empowered You Mon, 15 Oct 2007 22:52:21 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-54650 [...] Overcoming Jealousy By Steve Pavlina Overcoming jealousy has been one of my most requested topics for new articles, but in the past I’ve always declined such requests because I don’t have much personal experience in this area. I’m not prone to jealousy, so I can’t explain … Steve Pavlina’s Personal Development… - http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog [...] […] Overcoming Jealousy By Steve Pavlina Overcoming jealousy has been one of my most requested topics for new articles, but in the past I’ve always declined such requests because I don’t have much personal experience in this area. I’m not prone to jealousy, so I can’t explain … Steve Pavlina’s Personal Development… - http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-52294 Some Personal Development Gold.. | Perfidy Wed, 12 Sep 2007 02:45:51 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-52294 [...] 1. Overcoming Jealousy - a recent post of Steve’s, read this post, it is brilliant! I think he is getter better and better. Not to say the early posts were not great. But, the stuff Steve is putting out at the moment right on the money. e.g “My current view of reality makes it nearly impossible for jealousy to arise because I don’t subscribe to the belief that we’re all separate beings in competition with each other. Instead I see us as projections of an all-encompassing consciousness. This may sound a little strange, but I usually prefer not to think of myself as an individual human being. I consider my ego to be nothing but a perspective — a lens through which consciousness can view and interact with its contents. But by itself it has no real substance” [...] […] 1. Overcoming Jealousy - a recent post of Steve’s, read this post, it is brilliant! I think he is getter better and better. Not to say the early posts were not great. But, the stuff Steve is putting out at the moment right on the money. e.g “My current view of reality makes it nearly impossible for jealousy to arise because I don’t subscribe to the belief that we’re all separate beings in competition with each other. Instead I see us as projections of an all-encompassing consciousness. This may sound a little strange, but I usually prefer not to think of myself as an individual human being. I consider my ego to be nothing but a perspective — a lens through which consciousness can view and interact with its contents. But by itself it has no real substance” […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-52027 Steve Pavlina Getting You Out Of The Rat Race | Rat Brain Sun, 09 Sep 2007 07:59:39 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-52027 [...] Steve has a post called Overcoming Jealousy which is a topic that is very important to getting out of the rat races. Many people persue their rat race quest because they want something they have seen someone else enjoying. This motivation can be very harmful. [...] […] Steve has a post called Overcoming Jealousy which is a topic that is very important to getting out of the rat races. Many people persue their rat race quest because they want something they have seen someone else enjoying. This motivation can be very harmful. […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-51970 Personal Development Radar - 08/09/2007 | Personal Development Blog Sat, 08 Sep 2007 21:55:39 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-51970 [...] Steve Pavlina has done it once again - he wrote a article that really impressed me: Overcoming Jealousy. Don’t get me wrong - most of his articles are good, but this particular one resonated with my own thoughts so much that I was amazed. I totally agree with Steve on everything he said on the subject. [...] […] Steve Pavlina has done it once again - he wrote a article that really impressed me: Overcoming Jealousy. Don’t get me wrong - most of his articles are good, but this particular one resonated with my own thoughts so much that I was amazed. I totally agree with Steve on everything he said on the subject. […]

]]> http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-51898 Web Authors Who Inspire Me III : Be Inspired Every Day Sat, 08 Sep 2007 06:26:06 +0000 http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/overcoming-jealousy/#comment-51898 [...] Steve Pavlina is one of the most popular and successful bloggers on the web, and with good reason. He is intelligent and an incredible communicator. I never cease to be amazed at his ability to discuss matters of the heart and spirit, which seem to be imprecise and unpredictable by nature, with mathematical precision through logical analogies that just make sense. His systematic approach to spiritual analysis has played a big part in helping return faith to my life. This week’s amazing post was Overcoming Jealousy. Even though jealousy is not much of an issue in my life, I found his perspective on how abundance relates to relationships helpful and hopeful. [...] […] Steve Pavlina is one of the most popular and successful bloggers on the web, and with good reason. He is intelligent and an incredible communicator. I never cease to be amazed at his ability to discuss matters of the heart and spirit, which seem to be imprecise and unpredictable by nature, with mathematical precision through logical analogies that just make sense. His systematic approach to spiritual analysis has played a big part in helping return faith to my life. This week’s amazing post was Overcoming Jealousy. Even though jealousy is not much of an issue in my life, I found his perspective on how abundance relates to relationships helpful and hopeful. […]

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