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	<title>Comments on: How to Get From a 7 to a 10</title>
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		<title>By: Michael Muryn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Muryn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2005 14:34:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting entry here Steve.

That reminds me of a good example.  5 years ago, I have got a surgery, with a lot of complication and step to do before the surgery (months at hospital, etc. -- I have crohn's disease for your information).  I have been on and off hospital.  I was at college (called CEGEP out there in Quebec-Canada and it is before University).  I have not dropped off school because that is in my nature and still completed all my class (with pretty good result) event thought I have been away from school for more than half the time of the semester.  But that is not a pretty achievement, as you may know that it takes very little effort to perform well at school in less time than allowed.  However the year after, my "speed" like you say, was non-stopping and I was taking action like crazy.  It is like I was feeling stronger after this, I was following the path withouth question (it was natural).  I had like 9 classes at school, I was training twice a week with my badminton team and training a couple time off the team + the tournament.  On top of that I was parting regularly 2-3 times a week.  I was having way more interaction with girls and probably way more.  I had no time to idle, and better than this, the action I was taking was getting me improving.  People were wondering why after only 2-3 weeks after getting out of hospital, surgery, etc.  I was up and running, began back sport, etc.  Well that was the good decision.

However, I must admit that the side of your article saying we will fall back is also true.  After that, I sure have done thing, but I have slowed down.  Going to university.  Took 5 classes, then 4 classes, etc.  Degrading my speed.  It is not a bad thing to take life easily, but I have probably wasted a lot of time.  After I have got 2 jobs at the same time (still the case), however, I don't feel that I am going at the full speed.  I know I can go way faster.  I always aim higher and will always be.  Sometime you just feel stuck and that you hit a wall.  I gotta really restructure my time.  I often feel I don't have time to stop and think.  But probably I need to learn to say no or quit (that could be another subject of an article and that is probably inter-related to fear or nature of some people) some stuff so I can give myself the space to move and refactor myself.

If we all think about it, that is maybe why the movie "Fight Club" has been interesting a lot of people.  The movie also talk about going down-deep, to the lowest level.  It is also about taking action (Palahniuk also said he was writing the book more as an action story rather than a book that describe a color of a table for 10 pages, you can probably find a more accurate quote while seeking interview -- I believe it was on a site called dvdtalk or something like that).  I wonder how much parallel you can do about that movie and the philosophy of taking action, of going down deep and probably other concept.  It happens often that people say that they have seen the movie a lot of time (10-20-50 times+) -- myself included -- that is not something you can say about all movies.

Now time to go take real actions at job... and in my life! ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting entry here Steve.</p>
<p>That reminds me of a good example.  5 years ago, I have got a surgery, with a lot of complication and step to do before the surgery (months at hospital, etc. &#8212; I have crohn&#8217;s disease for your information).  I have been on and off hospital.  I was at college (called CEGEP out there in Quebec-Canada and it is before University).  I have not dropped off school because that is in my nature and still completed all my class (with pretty good result) event thought I have been away from school for more than half the time of the semester.  But that is not a pretty achievement, as you may know that it takes very little effort to perform well at school in less time than allowed.  However the year after, my &#8220;speed&#8221; like you say, was non-stopping and I was taking action like crazy.  It is like I was feeling stronger after this, I was following the path withouth question (it was natural).  I had like 9 classes at school, I was training twice a week with my badminton team and training a couple time off the team + the tournament.  On top of that I was parting regularly 2-3 times a week.  I was having way more interaction with girls and probably way more.  I had no time to idle, and better than this, the action I was taking was getting me improving.  People were wondering why after only 2-3 weeks after getting out of hospital, surgery, etc.  I was up and running, began back sport, etc.  Well that was the good decision.</p>
<p>However, I must admit that the side of your article saying we will fall back is also true.  After that, I sure have done thing, but I have slowed down.  Going to university.  Took 5 classes, then 4 classes, etc.  Degrading my speed.  It is not a bad thing to take life easily, but I have probably wasted a lot of time.  After I have got 2 jobs at the same time (still the case), however, I don&#8217;t feel that I am going at the full speed.  I know I can go way faster.  I always aim higher and will always be.  Sometime you just feel stuck and that you hit a wall.  I gotta really restructure my time.  I often feel I don&#8217;t have time to stop and think.  But probably I need to learn to say no or quit (that could be another subject of an article and that is probably inter-related to fear or nature of some people) some stuff so I can give myself the space to move and refactor myself.</p>
<p>If we all think about it, that is maybe why the movie &#8220;Fight Club&#8221; has been interesting a lot of people.  The movie also talk about going down-deep, to the lowest level.  It is also about taking action (Palahniuk also said he was writing the book more as an action story rather than a book that describe a color of a table for 10 pages, you can probably find a more accurate quote while seeking interview &#8212; I believe it was on a site called dvdtalk or something like that).  I wonder how much parallel you can do about that movie and the philosophy of taking action, of going down deep and probably other concept.  It happens often that people say that they have seen the movie a lot of time (10-20-50 times+) &#8212; myself included &#8212; that is not something you can say about all movies.</p>
<p>Now time to go take real actions at job&#8230; and in my life! <img src='http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Bill&#8217;s Blog  &#187; Blog Archive   &#187; How Good of a Poker Player Are You?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bill&#8217;s Blog  &#187; Blog Archive   &#187; How Good of a Poker Player Are You?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2005 18:02:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] aquo; PokerFilter 			 		 	 		 			How Good of a Poker Player Are You? 	 			 					I caught a very interesting article that was intended to be about busi [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: mel*</title>
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		<dc:creator>mel*</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2005 16:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve

This makes sense in terms of career, but how about health and fitness?  If what I'm doing now has me coasting along at 7, could a binge that brings me back down to 2 or 3 be a viable strategy?  While I agree that if what you're doing is not getting you results, then you should try something else, I would caution against using this strategy as an excuse to say 'blow the diet/exercise regime - I need to feel really crappy before I can figure out the best plan'???  What are your thoughts on that one?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve</p>
<p>This makes sense in terms of career, but how about health and fitness?  If what I&#8217;m doing now has me coasting along at 7, could a binge that brings me back down to 2 or 3 be a viable strategy?  While I agree that if what you&#8217;re doing is not getting you results, then you should try something else, I would caution against using this strategy as an excuse to say &#8216;blow the diet/exercise regime - I need to feel really crappy before I can figure out the best plan&#8217;???  What are your thoughts on that one?</p>
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		<title>By: Raj</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jul 2005 12:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Blog Steve. I was always wondering as to whether there is any way I could measure up myself. I mean I was puzzled as to where am I now and whether I am making any progress or not. And you have mede me realized that there is not only a way to measure(Using metrics) but also how to make progress in using them.  
      Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Blog Steve. I was always wondering as to whether there is any way I could measure up myself. I mean I was puzzled as to where am I now and whether I am making any progress or not. And you have mede me realized that there is not only a way to measure(Using metrics) but also how to make progress in using them.<br />
      Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: NM</title>
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		<dc:creator>NM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jul 2005 08:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.  That post was incredible.  I've just gotten out of a long-term (but not that great) relationship, and have been feeling pretty down lately.  But after reading this post, I realized that I was stuck in something that was (at best) a 7, and had no chance of moving beyond that.  Now I can see that even though I'm feeling like a 2 or 3 now, it's the only way to ever progress.  I knew that, but I'd never had it laid out so plainly.  Thanks for helping me out, now and I'm sure in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  That post was incredible.  I&#8217;ve just gotten out of a long-term (but not that great) relationship, and have been feeling pretty down lately.  But after reading this post, I realized that I was stuck in something that was (at best) a 7, and had no chance of moving beyond that.  Now I can see that even though I&#8217;m feeling like a 2 or 3 now, it&#8217;s the only way to ever progress.  I knew that, but I&#8217;d never had it laid out so plainly.  Thanks for helping me out, now and I&#8217;m sure in the future.</p>
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		<title>By: Devlyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Devlyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2005 22:53:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron F Stanton</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/07/how-to-get-from-a-7-to-a-10/#comment-3647</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron F Stanton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2005 13:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A 7/10 may sound pretty good to some, but another way of looking at it as being in the top 40% (if we think of it as percentiles, and a 10/10 is the top 10%).  Suddenly a 7/10 doesn't sound quite so good anymore.

This is only relevant if we regard the scale as comparing ourselves to others.  If we regard it as relative to our own capacity...again, how is operating at only 70% of personal capacity satisfactory?  It's like having a powerful 12 cylinder engine and being happy with only 8 of them firing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A 7/10 may sound pretty good to some, but another way of looking at it as being in the top 40% (if we think of it as percentiles, and a 10/10 is the top 10%).  Suddenly a 7/10 doesn&#8217;t sound quite so good anymore.</p>
<p>This is only relevant if we regard the scale as comparing ourselves to others.  If we regard it as relative to our own capacity&#8230;again, how is operating at only 70% of personal capacity satisfactory?  It&#8217;s like having a powerful 12 cylinder engine and being happy with only 8 of them firing.</p>
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		<title>By: Dustin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dustin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2005 05:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve, I find myself getting of track in different areas of my life too often. As I get back on one I fall off another. After reading this post I am now considering the problem to be my overall path and have decided to take immediate actions to change that.....Thanks! 

I view your blog as part of my daily 'Get Motivated' activities and realized this is actually necessary for me to stay focused, I know because I see and feel a difference when I loose focus, and positive about the obstacles I face. 

You being of a higher status or greater accomplishments, what do you read on a daily basis, if it is indeed on a daily basis, to fulfill your motivational reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve, I find myself getting of track in different areas of my life too often. As I get back on one I fall off another. After reading this post I am now considering the problem to be my overall path and have decided to take immediate actions to change that&#8230;..Thanks! </p>
<p>I view your blog as part of my daily &#8216;Get Motivated&#8217; activities and realized this is actually necessary for me to stay focused, I know because I see and feel a difference when I loose focus, and positive about the obstacles I face. </p>
<p>You being of a higher status or greater accomplishments, what do you read on a daily basis, if it is indeed on a daily basis, to fulfill your motivational reading.</p>
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		<title>By: Rosa Say</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 15:56:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aloha Steve, great post. As another side note to this, I'm really enjoying the July return to the Tour de France, and Lance Armstrong brings new light on the number 7 right now - just as he did last year with 6! Inspiring: he'll win whether he takes it again, or if he doesn't, for in "losing" he'll actually open the door for a new cycling champion, keeping the sport vibrant so that many more can feel the thrill of achieving their own personal 10s.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aloha Steve, great post. As another side note to this, I&#8217;m really enjoying the July return to the Tour de France, and Lance Armstrong brings new light on the number 7 right now - just as he did last year with 6! Inspiring: he&#8217;ll win whether he takes it again, or if he doesn&#8217;t, for in &#8220;losing&#8221; he&#8217;ll actually open the door for a new cycling champion, keeping the sport vibrant so that many more can feel the thrill of achieving their own personal 10s.</p>
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		<title>By: Alexei Vinidiktov</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alexei Vinidiktov</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 15:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve, this is one of the most inspiring posts I've read in a long time, and very timely too. Thank you so much!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve, this is one of the most inspiring posts I&#8217;ve read in a long time, and very timely too. Thank you so much!</p>
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		<title>By: Diego</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diego</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 13:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve, I've been following your blog for a while, and even though I've been perusing the archive (very useful, I should say) this is probably the most inspiring entry I've read here! I just wanted to drop a line for you to know than there's real people getting useful help from your writing on the other side.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve, I&#8217;ve been following your blog for a while, and even though I&#8217;ve been perusing the archive (very useful, I should say) this is probably the most inspiring entry I&#8217;ve read here! I just wanted to drop a line for you to know than there&#8217;s real people getting useful help from your writing on the other side.</p>
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		<title>By: Jon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 13:32:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow!  That's one of your best blog entries yet.  This one probably hit home more than any other one you've written so far.  This is exactly how I've been feeling with my career and came to a very similar conclusion recently -- though not anywhere near as finely tuned as you have described. 

Just want to thank you for the inspiration, and I hope you keep up the writing.  You're just getting better and better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow!  That&#8217;s one of your best blog entries yet.  This one probably hit home more than any other one you&#8217;ve written so far.  This is exactly how I&#8217;ve been feeling with my career and came to a very similar conclusion recently &#8212; though not anywhere near as finely tuned as you have described. </p>
<p>Just want to thank you for the inspiration, and I hope you keep up the writing.  You&#8217;re just getting better and better.</p>
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		<title>By: Success Begins Today &#187; Faith in Where You Are Going</title>
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		<dc:creator>Success Begins Today &#187; Faith in Where You Are Going</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 13:22:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] der. I found some excellent resources in the blogscape that may help. 	Steve Pavlina has a post today about being a 7. Do we really want to be a seven or do we want t [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] der. I found some excellent resources in the blogscape that may help. 	Steve Pavlina has a post today about being a 7. Do we really want to be a seven or do we want t [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Catalin Rotaru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catalin Rotaru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 12:59:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe that is why the illusion of security is just that: an illusion. If you're not growing, you are loosing ground. 

There is no such thing as pausing. If it's not improving, it's actually decaying.

However, so many people identify with and chase the path of mediocrity, of average. The path of "good enough".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe that is why the illusion of security is just that: an illusion. If you&#8217;re not growing, you are loosing ground. </p>
<p>There is no such thing as pausing. If it&#8217;s not improving, it&#8217;s actually decaying.</p>
<p>However, so many people identify with and chase the path of mediocrity, of average. The path of &#8220;good enough&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Rod</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2005 12:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That struck a chord! Very good. In terms of career, if you nurse and suckle your 7 then you'll become a lifer. To put it another way, the view from the hill that you are on can be very pleasant, but if you sit there too long then you'll never be able to climb those other mountains that you can see, as your muscles will atrophy and you'll become part of the scenery.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That struck a chord! Very good. In terms of career, if you nurse and suckle your 7 then you&#8217;ll become a lifer. To put it another way, the view from the hill that you are on can be very pleasant, but if you sit there too long then you&#8217;ll never be able to climb those other mountains that you can see, as your muscles will atrophy and you&#8217;ll become part of the scenery.</p>
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