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	<title>Comments on: Knowing When to Break a Commitment</title>
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		<title>By: Gabriel</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-399</link>
		<dc:creator>Gabriel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2004 17:16:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey. Steve doesn't claim he's a superior being. He is, however, a successful shareware author and publisher, so I'm interested in hearing what he has to say (which doesn't imply I'll accept it blindly - his view on things is another opinion to consider). He likes to write these things he wants to say and post it in public. We both benefit. If it doesn't benefit YOU, that's OK too, just don't read his blog. What's so difficult to understand?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey. Steve doesn&#8217;t claim he&#8217;s a superior being. He is, however, a successful shareware author and publisher, so I&#8217;m interested in hearing what he has to say (which doesn&#8217;t imply I&#8217;ll accept it blindly - his view on things is another opinion to consider). He likes to write these things he wants to say and post it in public. We both benefit. If it doesn&#8217;t benefit YOU, that&#8217;s OK too, just don&#8217;t read his blog. What&#8217;s so difficult to understand?</p>
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		<title>By: Roger Jack</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-380</link>
		<dc:creator>Roger Jack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 21:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think we should meet up at Steve's house, take him out back, and beat the snot out of him. Just kidding. :)

Really, anyone that is unhappy can vote with his Blog Reader. You don't have to subscribe anymore. I orginally started monitoring this blog because Steve was known as a shareware marketing expert. I wish he had written his book, but it is not the end of the world. Here is another book that you may want to consider: 

http://www.aegis-resources.com/product_marketing_handbook_fou.htm

It is very good!

Personally, I have been pleased with the direction that Steve has taken this blog. His insights have been useful to me.

Keep up the good work Steve!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think we should meet up at Steve&#8217;s house, take him out back, and beat the snot out of him. Just kidding. <img src='http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Really, anyone that is unhappy can vote with his Blog Reader. You don&#8217;t have to subscribe anymore. I orginally started monitoring this blog because Steve was known as a shareware marketing expert. I wish he had written his book, but it is not the end of the world. Here is another book that you may want to consider: </p>
<p><a href="http://www.aegis-resources.com/product_marketing_handbook_fou.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.aegis-resources.com/product_marketing_handbook_fou.htm</a></p>
<p>It is very good!</p>
<p>Personally, I have been pleased with the direction that Steve has taken this blog. His insights have been useful to me.</p>
<p>Keep up the good work Steve!</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-379</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 21:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The way some people are talking you'd think Steve just ran over a fresh litter of kittens.

And all the talk about "commitment" from a Bush blogger is deliciously ironic.  Perhaps we should all bash Steve for failing to properly fund his "No indie game developer left behind" program?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way some people are talking you&#8217;d think Steve just ran over a fresh litter of kittens.</p>
<p>And all the talk about &#8220;commitment&#8221; from a Bush blogger is deliciously ironic.  Perhaps we should all bash Steve for failing to properly fund his &#8220;No indie game developer left behind&#8221; program?</p>
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		<title>By: Eric W. Lund</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-375</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric W. Lund</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 14:45:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What the hell's wrong with you people? He didn't ditch anyone at the altar. He made a commitment to himself and how he would spend his time, but he made no promises to any of us. Steve changed his mind, that's it. God bless him and good luck. He's given a tremendous amount of his time, energy and even money to the indie game development community, and anyone in the business who says different is an ungrateful wretch.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What the hell&#8217;s wrong with you people? He didn&#8217;t ditch anyone at the altar. He made a commitment to himself and how he would spend his time, but he made no promises to any of us. Steve changed his mind, that&#8217;s it. God bless him and good luck. He&#8217;s given a tremendous amount of his time, energy and even money to the indie game development community, and anyone in the business who says different is an ungrateful wretch.</p>
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		<title>By: TesTeq</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-374</link>
		<dc:creator>TesTeq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 12:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To "No Such Person":
You are missing the whole point. It's about keeping commitments, not about a book which was a "vapourbook". Several years ago Bill Gates said that OS/2 is a personal computing future. Many people invested their time and skills to develop applications for this operating system. And then Microsoft re-evaluated their commitments :) . Of course only few people are affected by Steve's refocusing (Steve is not Bill) but ...
You can also see that credibility is not on the Steve's values list.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To &#8220;No Such Person&#8221;:<br />
You are missing the whole point. It&#8217;s about keeping commitments, not about a book which was a &#8220;vapourbook&#8221;. Several years ago Bill Gates said that OS/2 is a personal computing future. Many people invested their time and skills to develop applications for this operating system. And then Microsoft re-evaluated their commitments <img src='http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . Of course only few people are affected by Steve&#8217;s refocusing (Steve is not Bill) but &#8230;<br />
You can also see that credibility is not on the Steve&#8217;s values list.</p>
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		<title>By: No Such Person</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-373</link>
		<dc:creator>No Such Person</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 09:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Understand that when people get upset about this, and they are directing it at you, it’s more an issue of someone who seemed to be on our side appears to be abandoning us.&lt;/b&gt;

How has Steve abandoned anyone? Did I accidentally delete the voicemail where Steve called and told me he was "on my side?" 

I'd characterize the situation somewhat less generously.
 
A few people were envious of Steve's success and desirous of the wealth they imagined his knowledge would bring them. They became attached to the images of their new life, so they feel afflicted by the cancellation of the book.

For everyone who is authentically angry about the book cancellation, there is already a book for you! I think it was called, "Who Moved My Cheese?" And it's probably available &lt;i&gt;right now&lt;/i&gt; in your local bookstore!

Okay, enough negative energy from me...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Understand that when people get upset about this, and they are directing it at you, it’s more an issue of someone who seemed to be on our side appears to be abandoning us.</b></p>
<p>How has Steve abandoned anyone? Did I accidentally delete the voicemail where Steve called and told me he was &#8220;on my side?&#8221; </p>
<p>I&#8217;d characterize the situation somewhat less generously.</p>
<p>A few people were envious of Steve&#8217;s success and desirous of the wealth they imagined his knowledge would bring them. They became attached to the images of their new life, so they feel afflicted by the cancellation of the book.</p>
<p>For everyone who is authentically angry about the book cancellation, there is already a book for you! I think it was called, &#8220;Who Moved My Cheese?&#8221; And it&#8217;s probably available <i>right now</i> in your local bookstore!</p>
<p>Okay, enough negative energy from me&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-371</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 07:41:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While i believe in keeping commitments, i also know that there are times when you have to reconsider. If you believe that following through on a commitment is no longer the right thing to do then you shouldnt. It's as easy as that.  
Although some commitments should not be broken easily, you are the only one you are truly accountable to and if you can live with the consequences your actions might cause you should not let you be tied down by commitments made.

I stumbled upon Steves articles a few days ago and would have liked a book, but as other posters and Steve already pointed out: You shouldnt read only one book and hope for all your answers, you should read lots. And the ones that wont be written will probably be missed, but you probably read most of it in other forms elsewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While i believe in keeping commitments, i also know that there are times when you have to reconsider. If you believe that following through on a commitment is no longer the right thing to do then you shouldnt. It&#8217;s as easy as that.<br />
Although some commitments should not be broken easily, you are the only one you are truly accountable to and if you can live with the consequences your actions might cause you should not let you be tied down by commitments made.</p>
<p>I stumbled upon Steves articles a few days ago and would have liked a book, but as other posters and Steve already pointed out: You shouldnt read only one book and hope for all your answers, you should read lots. And the ones that wont be written will probably be missed, but you probably read most of it in other forms elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: TesTeq</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-370</link>
		<dc:creator>TesTeq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 06:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What’s interesting to me is that the individuals that talk about “Anonymous" seem to all be named “Joseph A. Young".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What’s interesting to me is that the individuals that talk about “Anonymous&#8221; seem to all be named “Joseph A. Young&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Bill Keller</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-368</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill Keller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 05:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally, I'd rather see Steve's reading list than his book anyway.  I like his writing a lot, but I'd rather read ten books on the subject than just his.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I&#8217;d rather see Steve&#8217;s reading list than his book anyway.  I like his writing a lot, but I&#8217;d rather read ten books on the subject than just his.</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph A. Young</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-367</link>
		<dc:creator>Joseph A. Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 03:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What's interesting to me is that the individuals that want to bash Steve for his decision seem to all be named "Anonymous". 

More power to you, Steve. I've been there and I know the awareness factor. It has nothing to do with being selfish. If I was incredible at mowing lawns, but it simply didn't make me happy, I would find a different way to give to the world that would be more rewarding for me. This blog seems to be your way. Nobody can doubt your charity. You have submitted more free knowledge to the world than all these Anonymouses put together. You could call it all quits, right now, and your contributions would be placed easily in the top 1% of honorables. Bah to those who get upset because you only mowed their lawn 5+ years for free. To them I say, &lt;i&gt;how dare you?&lt;/i&gt; Learn to accept the gift you have been given graciously and without greed. Watch the lawnmower while he shows you the way. Put forth the effort into applying what you've learned. Use your &lt;b&gt;own&lt;/b&gt; brain. That way, when the lawnmower needs to walk away from something, you won't say, "I can't believe you're walking away from my lawn!". Instead, you'll simply say, "Whatever you need to do, I'm behind you. And hey... thanks."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What&#8217;s interesting to me is that the individuals that want to bash Steve for his decision seem to all be named &#8220;Anonymous&#8221;. </p>
<p>More power to you, Steve. I&#8217;ve been there and I know the awareness factor. It has nothing to do with being selfish. If I was incredible at mowing lawns, but it simply didn&#8217;t make me happy, I would find a different way to give to the world that would be more rewarding for me. This blog seems to be your way. Nobody can doubt your charity. You have submitted more free knowledge to the world than all these Anonymouses put together. You could call it all quits, right now, and your contributions would be placed easily in the top 1% of honorables. Bah to those who get upset because you only mowed their lawn 5+ years for free. To them I say, <i>how dare you?</i> Learn to accept the gift you have been given graciously and without greed. Watch the lawnmower while he shows you the way. Put forth the effort into applying what you&#8217;ve learned. Use your <b>own</b> brain. That way, when the lawnmower needs to walk away from something, you won&#8217;t say, &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe you&#8217;re walking away from my lawn!&#8221;. Instead, you&#8217;ll simply say, &#8220;Whatever you need to do, I&#8217;m behind you. And hey&#8230; thanks.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Lynn Sebourn</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-366</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynn Sebourn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 02:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am glad I read this entry this early in reading your blog so I will know to remove it from my list.

There is a difference between a plan and a commitment. A plan is merely a sequence of events one has determined as the best course of action to accomplish a goal. One may change the events or goal at will. This is merely a change of plans.

However a commitment is an agreement in which your word is given that you will accomplish some task. When a commitment is broken, a trust has been violated unless the other parties have released you from your commitment. If you had a contract to deliver a book and then refused to deliver it, that would be a violation of commitment. If you merely planned to write a book and then changed your plans that would not be violating a commitment.

However, the idea that commitment can be broke for higher good is no commitment at all. It is often perceived as (and usually is) self-serving. A person who says he will violate a commitment for the greater good has just announced that you cannot trust him, for he may regard YOU as the lesser good.

What of the case of the slave trader? He is engaged in a moral wrong that should be corrected. Such is not the breaking of a proper commitment but the repentance of an evil act. Unless the writing of a book is an evil of itself, breaking a commitment to write it is hardly comparable to righting grievous wrongs

Commitments may be renegotiated or sometimes circumstances may occur which render us unable to keep a commitment, but true commitments should not be violated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am glad I read this entry this early in reading your blog so I will know to remove it from my list.</p>
<p>There is a difference between a plan and a commitment. A plan is merely a sequence of events one has determined as the best course of action to accomplish a goal. One may change the events or goal at will. This is merely a change of plans.</p>
<p>However a commitment is an agreement in which your word is given that you will accomplish some task. When a commitment is broken, a trust has been violated unless the other parties have released you from your commitment. If you had a contract to deliver a book and then refused to deliver it, that would be a violation of commitment. If you merely planned to write a book and then changed your plans that would not be violating a commitment.</p>
<p>However, the idea that commitment can be broke for higher good is no commitment at all. It is often perceived as (and usually is) self-serving. A person who says he will violate a commitment for the greater good has just announced that you cannot trust him, for he may regard YOU as the lesser good.</p>
<p>What of the case of the slave trader? He is engaged in a moral wrong that should be corrected. Such is not the breaking of a proper commitment but the repentance of an evil act. Unless the writing of a book is an evil of itself, breaking a commitment to write it is hardly comparable to righting grievous wrongs</p>
<p>Commitments may be renegotiated or sometimes circumstances may occur which render us unable to keep a commitment, but true commitments should not be violated.</p>
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		<title>By: Arthur Langereis</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-364</link>
		<dc:creator>Arthur Langereis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2004 00:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everyone who wants to start a business of any kind can still read all the other articles at Dexterity and the posts here and the boomkazillions of books on personal productivity out there and then &lt;em&gt;through their own efforts only&lt;/em&gt; succeed. This "you won't hold my hand because you don't care anymore and now I hate you" rhetoric betrays a deep sense of insecurity and dependence which should be addressed first before trying to start anything of value.

But, I was wondering, what will you do with Dexterity Software? Will someone else take over the business or will you phase it out of existence? I guess that you'd have to &lt;em&gt;really&lt;/em&gt; trust someone to take over your business so I assume that that won't happen?  (Though we all know about assumptions..)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone who wants to start a business of any kind can still read all the other articles at Dexterity and the posts here and the boomkazillions of books on personal productivity out there and then <em>through their own efforts only</em> succeed. This &#8220;you won&#8217;t hold my hand because you don&#8217;t care anymore and now I hate you&#8221; rhetoric betrays a deep sense of insecurity and dependence which should be addressed first before trying to start anything of value.</p>
<p>But, I was wondering, what will you do with Dexterity Software? Will someone else take over the business or will you phase it out of existence? I guess that you&#8217;d have to <em>really</em> trust someone to take over your business so I assume that that won&#8217;t happen?  (Though we all know about assumptions..)</p>
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		<title>By: Ilya Olevsky</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-362</link>
		<dc:creator>Ilya Olevsky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Dec 2004 22:15:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One thing I wanted to add: when I left my last and final job, my manager wanted to know why I was leaving.  So I told him I'm starting my own game company.  He told me that he could get me an interview at EA (which I didn't expect), but of course I declined because I knew that I didn't want another job.  What was even more amazing is that when I did an exit interview with the VP of Engineering and told him the same thing, he said that he totally understands me, because get this -- he personally knows the president of Blizzard Entertainment!  And he said that he knew the guy all the way back when the company was operating out of his parents' garage, who thought that their son wouldn't ever achieve anything in life. :-)  Funny thing is that Blizzard was the only game company I ever wanted to work at.  But eventually I realized why work at a company like that when I can &lt;i&gt;build&lt;/i&gt; a company like that. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing I wanted to add: when I left my last and final job, my manager wanted to know why I was leaving.  So I told him I&#8217;m starting my own game company.  He told me that he could get me an interview at EA (which I didn&#8217;t expect), but of course I declined because I knew that I didn&#8217;t want another job.  What was even more amazing is that when I did an exit interview with the VP of Engineering and told him the same thing, he said that he totally understands me, because get this &#8212; he personally knows the president of Blizzard Entertainment!  And he said that he knew the guy all the way back when the company was operating out of his parents&#8217; garage, who thought that their son wouldn&#8217;t ever achieve anything in life. <img src='http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Funny thing is that Blizzard was the only game company I ever wanted to work at.  But eventually I realized why work at a company like that when I can <i>build</i> a company like that. <img src='http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Ilya Olevsky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ilya Olevsky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Dec 2004 21:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@GBGames: I never considered Steve's book as my salvation, though it seems that many of the angered folks did.  The book would have simply been one extra resource in my resource toolbox.  If someone was expecting that reading Steve's book would be enough to build a successful business, they were seriously deluding themselves.  Steve himself says that you should read not one but dozens of books on a subject you want to improve in.  I don't see the book cancellation as a setback at all.  If the book were released, it would've helped me.  Without it I'll just have to look somewhere else for that info.  It's all out there though, just not in book form. :-)

@Michael Le: it's hard for me to understand why everyone's blaming EA so much.  Sure they're bastards, but the re-evaluation of commitments should be done by the employees.  They're the ones who let EA do this to them.  The nice thing about capitalism is that you don't have to work for someone if you don't want to.  If I was working at EA and didn't like the conditions I would've simply left.  The fact that there are people out there who'd happily work in such ridiculous conditions says more about how screwed up the game industry (and people who work there) is in general than about how bad EA is.  This is actually one of the major reasons why after graduating from college I got a "regular job" before starting my own business instead of getting a job in the game industry.  I knew how bad the conditions were, and I knew that I didn't want to work in these conditions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@GBGames: I never considered Steve&#8217;s book as my salvation, though it seems that many of the angered folks did.  The book would have simply been one extra resource in my resource toolbox.  If someone was expecting that reading Steve&#8217;s book would be enough to build a successful business, they were seriously deluding themselves.  Steve himself says that you should read not one but dozens of books on a subject you want to improve in.  I don&#8217;t see the book cancellation as a setback at all.  If the book were released, it would&#8217;ve helped me.  Without it I&#8217;ll just have to look somewhere else for that info.  It&#8217;s all out there though, just not in book form. <img src='http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Michael Le: it&#8217;s hard for me to understand why everyone&#8217;s blaming EA so much.  Sure they&#8217;re bastards, but the re-evaluation of commitments should be done by the employees.  They&#8217;re the ones who let EA do this to them.  The nice thing about capitalism is that you don&#8217;t have to work for someone if you don&#8217;t want to.  If I was working at EA and didn&#8217;t like the conditions I would&#8217;ve simply left.  The fact that there are people out there who&#8217;d happily work in such ridiculous conditions says more about how screwed up the game industry (and people who work there) is in general than about how bad EA is.  This is actually one of the major reasons why after graduating from college I got a &#8220;regular job&#8221; before starting my own business instead of getting a job in the game industry.  I knew how bad the conditions were, and I knew that I didn&#8217;t want to work in these conditions.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/12/knowing-when-to-break-a-commitment/#comment-357</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Dec 2004 21:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know - I didn't have any problem with the previous post where you said you were going to drop the book. But why did you need to compare it trading slaves? Why did you feel the need to explain yourself beyond the reasons you gave in that post? Was this really just a rationalization for yourself? The world could have done without this post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know - I didn&#8217;t have any problem with the previous post where you said you were going to drop the book. But why did you need to compare it trading slaves? Why did you feel the need to explain yourself beyond the reasons you gave in that post? Was this really just a rationalization for yourself? The world could have done without this post.</p>
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